The prolonged job search can be brutal. Sending out 200 resumes with zero results. Multiple rejections, or just as bad….radio silence. In the meantime, discouraging economic news about employers getting more cautious about hiring and a decline in labor demand can be demoralizing. Negative thought loops start to percolate.
Those of us at iRelaunch who returned or are returning after multi-year career breaks get it. We even have a special podcast mini-series on “Managing Through a Prolonged Job Search,” where we get into the weeds with our guests about how they pushed past their lowest points and ultimately got hired. Feel free to access our entire 3,2,1 iRelaunch podcast series featuring career reentry strategies, advice and success stories. We created it with you in mind and are adding to it regularly.
Now is a good time to take a step back and reset. Start with these top strategies to redirect your job search, especially after coming off of extended time out of the workforce. And don’t go it alone. Join a community of fellow jobseekers for support, advice, a sounding board, insights and encouragement.
#1 Level set by filtering out the macro “state of the economy,” and spend less time with people who feed you negative comments about your prospects. Instead, hang out with non-judgmental friends and family who will support you through the toughest moments and give you that pep talk when you need it most. You only need one right opportunity, regardless of the economic outlook. Hearing either “the economy is so bad that no one is getting hired right now” or “unemployment is at record lows- how come everyone else has managed to find a job and you haven’t?” is not relevant to you or your prospects.
#2 Get specific! And figure out exactly what you want to do. This all-important step drives every other part of your relaunch. Don’t skimp on the time required to get specific on exactly what you want to do, even if it means taking an interim “stop gap” job to pay the bills while you are figuring it out.
The career break can be a gift in that it is often the first time we allow ourselves to reflect on whether we were on the right career path to begin with. It is your job to determine where your interests and skills are strongest now; it’s not the employer’s job. One of the great benefits of having lived more life by the time we are on an extended career break is that we know ourselves better; we are more fully formed as people and have a keener sense of where we can add value at an employer.
Herminia Ibarra’s classic, “Working Identity,” encourages a “learn by doing” approach through volunteer opportunities, or by “shadowing” someone in a role that intrigues you. Catchafire