Brothers battle over whether to keep mom on ventilator, feeding tube alive

Two brothers are fighting over whether to keep their elderly mother, who is on a ventilator and a feeding tube, alive.

News 12 Staff

Jan 6, 2020, 7:47 PM

Updated 1,564 days ago

Share:

Two brothers are fighting over whether to keep their elderly mother, who is on a ventilator and a feeding tube, alive.
Edward and Kyle Lester appeared before a judge at state Supreme Court Monday.
Edward Lester released a video of his 91-year-old mother Arline Lester, in which he says she mouths, "I want to stay alive."
Court papers show that the other son, Kyle Lester, says their mother had a living will in 1991 in which she said that she did not want to be kept alive by life support.
"She had her leg amputated and she has respiratory problems that we don't feel is fatal and we feel she can get better. She wants to live and we're here to see that she does," said Edward Lester.
Attorneys for all involved went before the judge Monday. A court-appointed attorney for Arline Lester argued that her privacy rights were violated by the press and the courtroom being open to the public. The judge did side with that attorney and sealed the courtroom and court records going forward with this case.
Before the gag order Edward Lester told News 12, "My mother's perception of a living will was, 'If I'm a vegetable, if I'm brain dead and I'm laying there...pull the plug,' but that's not the situation we have now."
A family friend shared a video with News 12 that was taken five days ago. In it, Arline Lester is asked if she is in pain and she shakes her head no.
Edward Lester says his mother made him power of attorney in November. He also says she wrote 17 times on a piece of paper that she wants to revoke that 1991 living will.
The judge did begin hearing from witnesses on both sides Monday. It's not known what, if anything, happened since the judge issued a gag order.


More from News 12
1:30
Police: Car drives into Plainview dance studio; 3 suffer minor injuries

Police: Car drives into Plainview dance studio; 3 suffer minor injuries

2:03
Brightening skies and warmer temperatures heading into the weekend

Brightening skies and warmer temperatures heading into the weekend

1:50
Concern growing over homeless shelter near West Babylon day care

Concern growing over homeless shelter near West Babylon day care

2:00
John Theissen Children's Foundation opens Family Fun Center in Wantagh

John Theissen Children's Foundation opens Family Fun Center in Wantagh

0:13
Officials: West Babylon home destroyed by fire

Officials: West Babylon home destroyed by fire

0:47
Cafe 217 provides students with autism chance for work experience at East Rockaway HS

Cafe 217 provides students with autism chance for work experience at East Rockaway HS

0:42
Community raises $12,000 for workers of Merrick bar closed due to fire

Community raises $12,000 for workers of Merrick bar closed due to fire

0:23
Police: Hempstead man stole parking meters near Jericho Turnpike and Roslyn Road

Police: Hempstead man stole parking meters near Jericho Turnpike and Roslyn Road

1:55
8-year-old from Valley Stream becomes first in NY to undergo gene therapy for rare disease

8-year-old from Valley Stream becomes first in NY to undergo gene therapy for rare disease

2:27
2016 whistleblower tip warned of barrels buried at old Grumman property in Bethpage

2016 whistleblower tip warned of barrels buried at old Grumman property in Bethpage

0:25
Long Islander wins $1,000 a day for life from lotto ticket

Long Islander wins $1,000 a day for life from lotto ticket

1:34
Police: Drunk driver hits patrol car at scene of DWI crash; Suffolk officer hurt

Police: Drunk driver hits patrol car at scene of DWI crash; Suffolk officer hurt

0:44
NuHealth holds breast cancer screenings at Plainview-Old Bethpage Library

NuHealth holds breast cancer screenings at Plainview-Old Bethpage Library

1:09
The East End: Hamptons Handpoured

The East End: Hamptons Handpoured

1:52
Find fun, interactive activities for family and friends at Main Street Board Game Café in Huntington

Find fun, interactive activities for family and friends at Main Street Board Game Café in Huntington

0:37
North Babylon HS gives away dresses, suits ahead of prom season

North Babylon HS gives away dresses, suits ahead of prom season

0:22
Central Islip man sentenced to 22 years in prison for raping daughter

Central Islip man sentenced to 22 years in prison for raping daughter

1:45
Long Island pizzerias come together to raise funds for family of slain detective

Long Island pizzerias come together to raise funds for family of slain detective

0:30
Hempstead man pleads guilty, gets 8 years for drug trafficking

Hempstead man pleads guilty, gets 8 years for drug trafficking

0:19
Nassau Legislature approves 2 new outdoor fields for Mitchel Athletic Complex

Nassau Legislature approves 2 new outdoor fields for Mitchel Athletic Complex